Elder Law and Your Rights and Independence
Family members often assume that a verbal understanding is enough to let them speak with doctors or manage accounts. Hospitals, banks, and courts do not accept that, however, and the staff in those offices will be looking for a signed paper that names an agent.If that paper is missing, they'll follow Texas default rules, and those can end up sending matters to a judge to make the final decision: meaning an elderly relative's personal wishes could be ignored completely.
Medical Power of Attorney
Protecting independence and autonomy starts with getting power of medical attorney documents in order and signed before it's too late. A medical power of attorney names the person who may speak to doctors and make decisions for a person after the attending physician certifies in writing that the patient cannot make their own health decisions.Directive
Along with a power of attorney, it's wise to have an authorized Directive to Physicians, which tells the medical team what treatment you want or do not want. Your agent will follow these instructions and step in if only when situations arise that your directive doesn't cover.Financial Power of Attorney
There should also be a durable financial power of attorney in place, drafted under the Texas Estates Code, to give an agent authority to act if an elderly relative becomes incapacitated. The agent can pay housing costs, deal with banks, and handle government paperwork. The grant of power can be broad or limited to certain tasks.The Consequences of Waiting Too Long
The Possibility of Guardianship
Texas treats guardianship as a last resort, and the court is required to look for alternatives and available supports before appointing a guardian. But if there are no powers of attorney, no directive, no representative payee, and if the elderly person doesn't share ownership of a house or of bank accounts with someone else who can simply continue paying bills and making decisions, something must be done.If you wait until your relative is actually incapacitated to act, it will no longer be possible to form the protective documents described above, and you may have no option but a public, costly guardianship that strips away rights.